Information Overload
It’s tough being a mom these days. Sure, I am grateful for all of the blessings of social media. I can’t even imagine what it was like for my parents, 30 years ago, trying to raise me in a world where everything was word of mouth. Fortunately for me, in an instant, I can click onto one of the many “mom” Facebook groups I am a part of, and get dozens of recommendations – where to bring my child for a haircut, which restaurants have “family dinners” available for takeout when I don’t want to cook, etc.
Misinformation Dissemination
This world of instant answers also can lead to a large amount of misinformation being disseminated very quickly. Asking a question in a mom forum will lead to many different, and sometimes opposing and contradictory, answers and opinions. It’s tough to know who to trust and what to believe. As a nurse, I have cringed at some of the health advice being given out on various forums. My worry is that people will believe (and try) everything they read on the internet, without questioning the source of information, the science behind it, or whether the treatment actually makes sense. So who can you trust, to steer you towards correct answers, when it comes to raising your child?
Ask the Experts
My advice is always ask the experts. If it is something health-related, the best information will always come from YOUR child’s pediatrician. They are the experts. Just because someone is a doctor or a pediatrician on the internet, does not mean they know what is best for YOUR child and your family. Only your own doctors know your child and their health, and will be able to tell you whether the latest mommy recommended treatment for XYZ will work for your child.
Your child may have an allergy to something in the recommended treatment, or may be taking a medication that is incompatible with the recommended treatment. Additionally, just because someone claims to be a doctor, nurse, or “expert” does not mean that they are unbiased and will give you truthful advice. Look for information from credible sources, such as the American Academy of Pediatrics, for the latest health and safety information for kids.
If the question is about something academic, ask your child’s teacher. They spend several hours a day with your child, and they are the experts when it comes to learning and education. They will be able to recommend books and educational toys and activities for you and your child to enjoy.
Trust your instincts
If something doesn’t sound right, question it. Do your own research. Ask your trusted experts. Don’t believe everything you read on the internet. You know your child better than anyone, and know what will work for them. You know more than you think you do! You’re doing a great job fellow moms!
